Tuesday, 23 December 2008
Sleeping with the boss this Christmas could get you a promotion!
Thursday, 4 December 2008
HNT - Start of the Weekend
Last weekend we managed a couple of nights away. This was Friday night's contribution to the proceedings!
Wednesday, 26 November 2008
Coco de Mer massage candle for starters
The actual candle is encased in a ceramic square. As the candle burns it gives off a unique and “clean” smell. It took only a few minutes to produce enough wax to use. CG looked quite concerned when I blew out the candle and started to tip the pot over his chest. However, the wax wasn’t too hot and it rubbed in really nicely. He very quickly got the hint and asked if I’d like to try some.
Soon I was lying on my front having a fabulous massage. The wax is as nice as any massage oil. The scent was quite strong but not overpowering. As he worked up my back, and I started dozing off, I was thinking how I would be able to write up what a lovely massage candle I was sent……
And then, as he continued to work my lower back, he slipped his free hand under my pelvis and started a far more interesting massage. Coco de Mer products suggest to me an element of the erotic rather than graphic so it seems inappropriate to go into detail on the half hour of amazing oral sex that followed, or the mind blowing sex that capped off the night. Suffice to say I can highly recommend the massage candle!
Thursday, 20 November 2008
Erotica 08 (more info)
From Friday 21st to Sunday 23rd November 2008, the Olympia exhibition space will once again be taken over for the annual Erotica exhibition. Erotica is the biggest consumer adult lifestyle show in the world as well as being the most daring and exciting event of the year. The event showcases over 250 of the best and most exciting people and products from the world of erotica. Just a few of the reasons why so people attended the sell-out show last year included the stimulating live stage shows, endless shopping opportunities, seminars and stunning art galleries.
The Erotica exhibition has been going since 1997 and is aimed at freethinking adults of all ages wishing to experience and enjoy a diverse range of entertainment and stylish lifestyle events, products and services, whilst promoting safe and respectful sex. Erotica is and has become the exhibition with the largest footfall of all UK consumer shows and its famous exhibitors at this year's Erotica include Richard Larsen Jewellery and Velda Lauder Corsets (well known around world - makes items for Dita Von Teese).
In addition to attending the show, the public can become Erotica members, which offers holders many benefits. As an Erotica Red, Gold or Black Card holder, members have some serious perks.
On the Saturday night during the exhibition; the famous Erotica Winter Ball is the party to see and be seen at. This year, The Erotica Winter Ball will be held at the glamorous Club Coliseum on 22nd November 2008 and tickets are £60 per-person.
Tickets for both the Erotica Winter Ball and the exhibition are available at www.erotica2008.com strictly over 18s, no cameras and no street wear permitted. Black Card Members receive 2 VIP tickets to the Erotica Ball as part of the membership package.The Erotica exhibition is the ideal day out for daring and intrigued individuals, couples and groups; be daring, be decadent and have fun!
Monday, 17 November 2008
Erotica 08
Friday, 14 November 2008
Sugasm #152
Sugarbutch Star: Maze - The Girl in the Red Dress - “She’s the kind of girl who brings out the worst in me.”
treat or … fuck - “He looked like I had just given him a car for Christmas and he gently took my hand and led me upstairs. ”
A Life Exposed and Amplified - “We were breaking the rules and being dirty.”
Mr. Sugasm HimselfSugar Bank
Editor’s ChoiceI told him I loved him. He gave me a pen.
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Wednesday, 12 November 2008
HNT - under the covers
Tuesday, 11 November 2008
Saturday, 8 November 2008
New Toys
As I say, the plan was that I’d be prepping for the party as CG wasn’t due home until late. However he surprised me, and himself when he found a bed covered in sex toys, by coming home early. But by this time I was cooking - so no time for fun. Anyway, the evening didn’t go quite as planned. Basic prep done he took me off for a spin in his ultra sexy motor (is it wrong to get quite so turned on by the fast driving of a powerful car by a masterful man?!), we had a fabulous Thai meal and drank two bottles of wine. The net result being all I can remember about what followed in bed was he allowed me more exploration of my ultimate fantasy with the help of this little bit of kit from LoveHoney (can I promote two companies in one blog post?!). He also let me do something far more intimate and controlling – but we’ll leave that for another post.
Roll on lazy Sunday is all I can say!
Wednesday, 29 October 2008
Mixing business and pleasure
I wrap my arm around her waist and squeeze her, as if I’m casual about the whole thing, “Go for it”.
And then we are outside walking back to our hotel. Decision made; so simple really. You slip your arm around my shoulders and as she chats on, giggly normal conversation, she tucks her arm into mine. Occasionally brushing up against me.
In the lift you lean over to me and slowly kiss me. Then looking over my shoulder you say teasingly “Oh sorry, I forgot you were there” and throw your arm around her shoulders and, as I move away, you hug her. Then you lift her face to you and gently kiss her on the lips. It’s sensual rather than sexual but I feel a tug in my stomach and a rush of desire.
When we get into the room you fix us drinks and then go to the bathroom. From previous evenings spent gossiping with her I know she is bisexual but suddenly the 10 years between us become more apparent and she is a nervous young lady in a potentially awkward situation. Her lack of confidence conversely fuels mine and I move towards her. “Can I kiss you?” I ask. She nods her ascent and I move closer and touch her face, her skin is perfect and she is incredibly beautiful. I move my hand around to the back of her neck and bring my lips to hers. As I expect, her lips are smooth but her kiss is passionate from the start, almost rough and it makes me catch my breath and moan slightly.
As we kiss she runs her hands down my body, across my back and then up to my breasts. I realise I still have one hand by my side and mirror her; feeling her fleshy breasts, soft and warm. I suddenly notice you are in the doorway, smiling at us. You say “Carry on” and move to the chair by the bed. Picking up your drink so casually.
I want to kiss her again, but she steps back and easing her dress off her shoulders allows it to drop the floor. She slips out of her thong and steps out of her shoes. She is stood less than two foot from me wearing only a corset that accentuates her curves and offers up her fabulous breasts. Her confidence has definitely returned and she slowly undoes the buttons on my blouse and helps me out of my trousers. We kiss again and the expanses of my naked flesh against her body tingle. Frustratingly she pulls away again and sits on the bed. Then she lies back, supporting herself on her elbows. “Kiss me” she says; opening her legs to me. I don’t hesitate as I kneel between her thighs. I wrap my hands around her arse and gently touch my tongue to her smooth pussy. I slide my tongue back and forth, feeling her clit harden. I move one hand and use it to open her lips and give me greater access. I then slip my fingers inside her. She tastes amazing, feels amazing and I can feel myself throbbing.
I am unaware of your presence in the room once more, until you move over to the bed and say, “Can I join in?” She moans “Hell yea” but you stay were you are and touch me on the shoulder and look to me for confirmation. I look up and, again, mirroring her say “Hell yea” with a smile.
You lean over and kiss her and whilst doing so start to undress yourself. She removes one hand from where she has it tangled in my hair and helps you unbuckle your belt. You briefly stand to shed all your clothes. You are as hard as I have ever seen you and it turns me on further. Then she pulls you onto the bed and you move your hips towards her I whimper as she takes your cock into her mouth. I have lost concentration and she reminds me what I should be doing by pushing my head back towards her warm, damp cunt. I continue to lick her and fuck her with my fingers as she sucks and licks your cock. She is moving her hips against me and the pace is quickening. I feel her pulling me harder towards her and then she is coming. I feel her clit pulse and her cunt tightening rhythmically around my fingers as she moans in pleasure.
She lies back and your glistening cock pops out of her mouth. She looks at me “I want to see him and you now”. She hesitates, “but kiss me first”. She moves back, fully onto the bed and I move up her body; supporting myself above her on my elbows and knees. I kiss her, enjoying knowing that moments earlier your cock had been in her mouth and with the taste of her still on my tongue.
You move behind me and raise my arse, sliding your cock into my wet cunt. I groan into her mouth as you force yourself into me. As you start to move she lifts her hand between my legs and using her thumb starts to rub my clit. Occasionally she moves her hand towards you and encircles your cock as you move in and out of me. I am so turned on that I know I will come any second. I break away from kissing her and say, “Don’t stop”. She just kisses me again and you murmur, “Oh my god, I’m going to come”. At that I start to come, pushing myself hard against her hand, making you force my hips back up to your throbbing cock and then I feel you coming too; pumping your hot come into me whilst I am still pulsing from my orgasm. We stay that like for maybe half a minute, she looks happy and glazed. Then I roll off her and you lie behind me, still inside me, leaning across and stroking her.
Sunday, 19 October 2008
More sunshine
Soon he stops me and say he needs to be inside me; that he needs to fuck me. I catch my breath as he says the words. There are boats passing all the time and we are on a very exposed beach but I so badly want him. I lead him up to our hire car, remove my shorts and climb into the back. He slides down his shorts again and leans into the car - one hand on the parcel shelf one on the seat in front - and thrusts his hard cock into my wet cunt. I involuntarily squeal with pleasure. The car is very small and I am pressed up against the far door with my left foot up on the driver’s headrest. He absolutely pounds the fuck out of me, only stopping to laugh as he removes my glasses from where they have become wedged under my head. I lift my arse to allow him to enter me more deeply and for me to grind against his pelvis as he thrusts into me. It is probably the quickest sex we have had, very probably the roughest. Definitely the most exciting and sexiest; and as he comes I come.
Wednesday, 15 October 2008
Monday, 15 September 2008
In the Shower
I sink to my knees and with no hand contact, take your cock in my mouth. You gasp. The water runs across my head, down my face, making it difficult to breathe as I move on your cock. I have to pull my hair back as the water moving over me pushes it forward onto my face. I take my hands again and run them round to your arse, I pull you closer. You fill my mouth. I work your cock, knowing what you like; knowing what I enjoy giving. Feeling your body responding naturally, you move your hips towards me unconsciously. Occasionally you lift your hands to wrap them into my hair; wanting to pull me harder onto you. I move away and look up at you, your face in pleasured concentration, the water running down and your cock so hard and waiting to be taken back into my mouth.
I lift myself on my heels and suck you in once more, moving my hand around your cock as I suck and lick. You moan and push yourself more deeply into my mouth. And, as the water runs down over my body you groan and harden and then begin to pulse your come into my mouth. I drink it up, not wasting one drop. Then, looking up at you I smile with satisfaction. As I often feel - like the cat that got the cream.
Tuesday, 9 September 2008
Sex Toy Review - iBuzz Two Vibrator
It’s also a great looking product. Slightly garish colours on the rabbit and cock ring (pink for the girl blue for the boy!) but the control unit is a nice tidy white box with silver panel which has a blue neon light behind it.
Positioning: Firstly, you need to connect the whole thing up. You do NOT want to be doing this in the heat of passion. The cables are not very long so if you are using this as a couple you need to be pretty close to each other (which of course isn’t a problem if you are using it during sex). However, I challenge anyone to change positions whilst using the IBuzz! The cock ring has two rings, one for the cock and one for his balls. It has a “nubbed top” for clit stimulation if you are using it during sex. If used solo the bunny is nicely shaped to fit against you whilst the ears tackle your clit. Personally I found it difficult to work out how to position the bunny during sex. However, with the nubbed bit and the vibes running through the cock ring that wasn’t such an issue.
Functionality: If you use it with the ipod it vibrates in time with the music. If you use it without an ipod it has 4 pulsing patterns and 11 speeds. More than enough. As with the Bang Bang Bunny Rabbit vibrator I found the ears a little small to give me the sensation I need to climax. However, it certainly gets you on the way.
Doing the business: I think this about more than just getting you off. It’s less about having a wank and more about pleasuring yourself or sharing a sensual/sexual experience. However, yes, it does do the job! It’s quite an experience to listen to music through headphones whilst both feeling the same vibrations, especially if you do it whilst having your bloke’s cock inside you. However, I found the cables annoying and not being able to move about was more of an issue than I expected. Used solo it’s a really nice way to pass half an hour or more.
Value for money: The RRP is £40, but LoveHoney are currently selling the IBuzz for £20. It’s a great looking sex toy, it is great fun, it’s something for a couple to share but can be used along. Overall I think it is great value for money.
Rating 7/10
Pros: Great for a couple to share, lots of vibration options and it’s fun. Cons: The cables are very annoying, the rabbit ears could be “stronger”
Thursday, 4 September 2008
Tuesday, 2 September 2008
Sugasm #144
This Week’s Picks
Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”? “ The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”
First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship “The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”
Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree “I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Thursday, 21 August 2008
Tuesday, 19 August 2008
My request
Monday, 18 August 2008
Risk Taker
I dip my fingers in the warm chocolate and draw first on your stomach and then up the wonderfully hard shaft of your cock. I then lick it off, there is chocolate everywhere and it moves from sensual and sexy to send me into giggles. I kiss chocolate off your face and then you move to bring me on top of you. Our pact of no sex forgotten?
I don’t move with you, but instead pull you to me. To bring you across and on top of me. You raise yourself on your arms above me and look down as you slowly enter me. I lift my hips to you and then once inside drop back down and wrap my legs around you. This position is so uncommon for us and yet it’s the one I love the most. I love to feel the weight of you on me, the strength in your arms. To see your face fully and to know you are watching me. To be kissed and to feel so utterly taken.
You untangle my legs and bring them over your shoulders. You look down and watch, with obvious pleasure, as you drive your cock in and out of my swollen cunt. I am so incredibly turned on, but certain I won’t come; this is not a position that allows enough direct stimulation for me. However, you above me, feeling your hard cock forcing itself so deeply into me is amazing. You drop my legs down and kiss me. You pull right back and plough deeper into me as you groan.. I’m going to come”…..I feel each pulse as you come hard inside me. As you finish you push deeper still and suddenly I can feel my own body start to pulse and my orgasm takes me by surprise. I raise my hips to you and gasp as it hits me.
As we lie together I wonder; I know you aren’t a risk taker. I doubt you knew how slight the risk was. There were alternatives that you ignored. Why was that?
Friday, 15 August 2008
Thank Fuck It’s Friday
I text you “server room, 2 minutes” and leave the main office. We have joked about office sex. About you fucking me on the boardroom table, sex in the stock room and a blow job in the server room. I wonder how you will respond.
When I first met you I thought you were a risk taker, you aren’t. But knowing that I still can’t anticipate you.
I stand outside the server room door like a naughty girl outside the Headmasters office. You keep me waiting but you come.
Suddenly I feel nervous. This floor is mostly unused but there are offices full of people above us. But still I open the door and we slip inside. The room is tiny and freezing due to the constant cooling air conditioning. It’s dark but there is a small window in the door.
You stand with your back to the door and we kiss. Aware of the fact our absence will soon be noticed I step back and move down your body, kissing as I go. I undo your trousers, you hesitate slightly but I can already feel how turned on you are. I ease your cock free and move my mouth to you, I open my lips and draw you in. You gasp, but so do I. I run my hand around your thigh and into the small of your back. Bringing you closer to me. To fill my mouth.
The taste of you, the noise you make in the back of your throat, the excitement of the circumstances. I am as turned on as you.
I swirl my tongue around the head of your cock, I use my hands to stroke you as I gently suck, I take your unbelievably hard cock right into my mouth. I moan, I am so wet ; so desperate to feel you inside me. But I know this is about you.
You bring your hands down to me, holding my head with one and you pushing me into you. I feel you grow and know you are so fucking up for this. I want you to know that you are filling me completely and there’s not an inch of room in my mouth you haven’t filled which is now full with your ”my god “ pulsating raw cock. I’m almost gagging by now but in a good way whilst small sexual gurgling noises escape from throat . Christ I’m so fucking on the edge by now that I could simply scream; I recognise that you are now close and convulsing, groaning and swaying in compete disarray. I reach down to touch myself; my hot and very soaked pussy; as you come deep and with extreme intensity hitting the back of my throat. It makes me flinch and squirm in complete extasy. The sheer desire and lust of this makes me giggle slightly as you collapse into the door but I make sure not all of that precious come escapes from my lips.
Wednesday, 13 August 2008
Sex Toy Review - LoveHoney Jessica Rabbit 2.0 Rabbit Vibrator
Positioning: The general plan with a rabbit is that you insert the shaft into yourself and position the bunny ears against, or above, or around your clit. I found it easy to insert, even without lubrication (but to be honest I seem to be pretty turned on most of the time so perhaps the rest of the world would need a bit of lube). When it first arrived it wasn’t really the time of the month for me to fancy inserting much into myself but I still managed to get the benefit of the ears. Firstly by holding it upside down and having the shaft away from myself and then also by turning it on its side. I found that the ears working sideways on were quite a different sensation.
One of the problems with the rabbit is that if you want to change the speed of the vibrations it can be a bit of a stretch if you are lying on your back. Also, sometimes you need to hold the end of the shaft to push it properly back into position whilst you are mid action. I’ve never found it comfortable to use lying on my front and standing up requires pelvic floor muscles stronger than those I posses. An option is to sit propped upright with your feet pulled up against your body. Using your heels to keep the rabbit in place. This also totally exposes your clit to the action of the bunny ears. I guess this might be too much for some people. Of course, another alternative is to include your partner in the action!
Functionality: The shaft and the bunny ears both have 3 speeds and can be controlled independently of each other (so you can just have the ears if the squirmy shaft doesn’t do it for you). There is also a “reverse” button to rotate the shaft the other way. . The slowest setting on the ears is pretty high vibrations and I’m sure that’d be enough for many people. I’ve never made it up to level 3. Maybe I’m unique in this but as soon as I come I don’t want any vibrations or probing going on. For this reason I always prefer toys with a simple “off” switch. The rabbit doesn’t have one and if you have it up at full pelt you either have to whip it out and chuck it across the room (as I have done) or run down the speed settings till it shuts off.
Doing the business: This works. I have come within 30 seconds when using the rabbit. I’ve also managed to eek it out to about 6 minutes. I think you’d have to be doing something else (like your tax return) to make it last any longer than that. I am a penetration girl so love the sensation of something inside me whilst I masturbate (in an ideal world this would be CGs cock – but that’s not always practical).
Value for money: It's £25. I found it a bit garish (as I may have mentioned). However, it’s a quality product and I would say great value for money. Really nice feel to it and boy does it work!
Rating 8/10
Pros: Fast worker, nice fit, firm bunny ears, waterproof
Cons: No “quick” off switch, noisy if you have the whole thing on full throttle
Tuesday, 12 August 2008
Fleshbot
In the meantime I wanted to say thanks to the guys at Fleshbot who caused a lovely surge in hits a couple of weeks ago when they featured (probably my favourite post) on their Sex Blog Roundup.
Superb site and thank you again!
Wednesday, 6 August 2008
Sugasm #143
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #144? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Anti-Porn Protest Gets Weird “People get very excited about their causes and lack the sense to see if the information backs them up. ”
The Come Shot “You don’t see their bodies going blotchily red and hear them howling like a banshee.”
Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice In My Office
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Monday, 4 August 2008
Sex Toy Review - Bang Bang Bunny Rabbit vibrator
Positioning: Firstly, it’s fairly obvious, but you want to make sure the wire isn’t between you and the bunny. My plan was to lie on my back and nestle the “egg” up against myself with the bunny ears resting on/around my clit. This turned out to be far more complicated than I’d anticipated to the point where I had to turn the light on (I like to masturbate in the dark if I’m on my own!). Even when I had managed that I found that I couldn’t get the angle right and I had to hold the egg in place. I had similar problems when using it sitting propped up in bed. However, it does feel great against the skin and was a nice size once slotted into place.
Functionality: It has 7 different vibrating speeds and patterns (probably just the right amount to give options but not overload!). The fastest vibration was actually painful for me (but other people might like that intensity) and on one setting it felt more like a woodpecker than rabbit ears. I think that was due to the “ears” being so small. You can also easily remove the pink cover and use it smooth. It’s not waterproof and I’m unsure if it’s suitable for insertion.
Doing the business: Basically it does do the job. Now I have worked out what I’m doing with it I have two choices. I can either slam it up to high vibrations and orgasm fairly quickly or if I want a more leisurely wank I can run through the different vibrations/speeds taking my time.
Value for money: For £15 I think you could expect something a bit slicker as first impressions were it’s a bit tacky. However, it does seem well made. I can’t deny it does the job but for me it doesn’t give those body slamming, breath taking away orgasms I have had with other toys.
Rating 6/10
Pros: It does the job, is fairly quiet and has lots of vibration options
Friday, 1 August 2008
Saturday Night
My feet ache and I’m exhausted so I go lie on the bed. I lie on my front with my head on my arms. I think about lifting my lower legs and crossing them at the ankle but decide that’s too staged. But, and even at the time this makes me smile, it’s not too staged that at some point between returning from the party and heading to bed I added stockings to my outfit! I listen to you in the kitchen and wonder how long before you get the message, pleased to hear you start to switch everything off.
You walk over to the bed and I wonder if you are playing the game too; if you will just lie next to me and pretend to sleep, if you will get undressed and slip into bed completely ignoring me. But you don’t. You lie fully across my back and kiss my neck. You get me. You always get me.
You move off me slightly, still touching so much of me with your body, and run your hand up my inner thigh. I know you will now tease me and you do. Slowly sweeping your hand up my thigh and across to the other whilst studiously avoiding touching me where I need you. Eventually you move closer and run the back of your hand up, fully, between my legs. I expect to hear your surprise when you find I am wearing no underwear but you make no reaction; am I so obvious? I want to lift my self to you but resist the urge. I need to moan but hold myself back. Worried that at too much reaction you will pull away. You lift my dress further and I quietly ask you to remove it. You help me out of it whilst I still lie on my front on the bed in basque and stockings. Somehow you have become naked and you move on top of me and push my legs apart with your knees and slightly lift my arse to you. But there is no urgency, you move around on top of me touching me with your hands, occasionally pushing your hard cock against my wetness. Teasing but not frustratingly so. Your pace is just right.
Eventually you lift me higher and position yourself against me, slowly, beautifully, entering me. This time I moan. God, you feel amazing inside me. Everything is perfect, your entire body against me, the candles, the music (which I’d not noticed until now). Time has stopped.
Getting Fucked
You rise onto your knees and I move with you and you fuck me from behind. Still gently at first and then with more force, with more passion. At some point we move and you are above me with our legs entwined. I watch your cock as it slides into me and comes out glistening in the candlelight. It is hugely erotic. You untangle me and my legs are on your shoulders as you plough into me. Pinning one of my arms above my head, never taking your eyes off me.
And then you tuck your legs under yourself and in one swift movement we are down the other end of the bed and I am sitting astride you with your cock buried deep inside me. Now I hold your arms above your head and start to fuck you. I place one foot on the floor for leverage and grind myself against you. I need to push myself fully onto you, to arch my back and grind down filling myself with your hard cock. I need to come and know I am about to come. I pull myself upright and push my hands down onto your chest, as I always do when I come. You groan and I feel the start of your orgasm too. I need to stay still as I come and you need to move. It makes it a battle, but one I relish. I love the way you come, how it’s not over in a second, how your body curls inwards and towards the end of your orgasm how you your raise your knees. How you look at me as you are coming. I know there is nothing more connecting than this moment. Pure passion, pure heat, total lust, honesty and absolute love. I laugh. You are one amazing shag.
Thursday, 31 July 2008
Wednesday, 30 July 2008
Sugasm #142
This Week’s Picks
Interludes - part 3 “He winds the rope around his hands, smoothing the kinks, and I stand there, breathing a little faster, conscious of all those eyes upon me.”
Hurts So Good “I want you to wear the badges of sweet distress for days.”
Shower fantasy “You don’t want to admit it, but you want me.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice Why I haven’t blogged about the Mosley case
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Tuesday, 29 July 2008
I’m an official Sex Toy Reviewer
So I wrote to them and asked if they were interested in me trying out a few products and writing about them. I was very excited when they said yes. CG was slightly apprehensive, as he has voiced his concern about feeling redundant on more than one occasion!
Anyway, when the parcel arrived he was as keen as me to see what it held. I absolutely love getting stuff in the post. This is what they sent me:
Dream Egg 10 function remote control vibrator
Jessica Rabbit 2.0 vibrator
Magic Power Wand mini vibrator
Bang Bang Bunny Rabbit vibrator
Bada Bing Ring
First impressions: A sea of pink punctuated by the black power wand. Jessica Rabbit is like something you’d buy in a tourist shop along with a “kiss me quick” hat. It shouts sugar overload. But all of it was out of the packaging and being fiddled with in about 10 seconds flat. I resisted the urge to actually test any of it out there and then – as I was starving hungry and some things do sometimes come before sex!
But my plan for later was to try out the Bang Bang Bunny Rabbit first on myself and see if I could tempt CG into giving the sleek power wand a go (as practice for my ultimate fantasy).
Will keep you updated.
PS, I am starting a list of what I’d like to review in the future so please free to give me suggestions!
Thursday, 24 July 2008
Wednesday, 23 July 2008
Painful reminiscing
I ache everywhere. My back is tense. Initially from throwing my head and shoulders back with my arms clasped round your inner thighs as I sat astride you and then later from lying on my front and arching my arse up towards you so you could enter me more deeply. My hips feel pulled apart from you holding the top of my thighs and ramming yourself into me from above, forcing my legs over your shoulders as you leant down to kiss me. My calves, which will receive further battering from walking around all day in heals, are throbbing from where later still I sat astride you supporting my weight so you could lift your head and watch your cock slide in and out of me. Whilst I watched your expression of pleasure. I am covered in scratches all up my body from where I curled my nails into myself, in pleasure, so as to avoid scaring you.
Later, sitting on the hard seat in my afternoon meeting, the discomfort I feel reminds me how you alternated between gently making love to me and fucking me hard. How after two hours you took me, animalistically, from behind with one hand pulling me into you and the other gaining leverage against the headboard. I smile, inappropriately, as I think how in that time I came four times and you only the once.
As I start my journey back to you and another, more gentle night of passion, I stand on the underground train. I hold the filthy metal pole and consider how much I’d like to handcuff you to the metal posts of the spare bed and fuck for hours.
Photo credit: Fabian de Kloe
Tuesday, 22 July 2008
Sugasm #141
Comedy vs. Tragedy “Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”
Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”
A Wish“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice Road Rage
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Saturday, 19 July 2008
I worship your cock
I adore your cock and as much as I want you to fuck me I need you in my mouth. I wrap my hand around your shaft and lick the tip of your cock, running my tongue around the ridges. Cupping your balls in my other hand. After a minute I remove my hands and take as much of you into my mouth as possible. Feeling you pushing against the back of my throat, me relaxing into it. This is just a prelude to sex I tell myself. I don’t want to make you come; I want to suck your cock for hours. I look up at you and you are no longer sleepy; the intensity of your gaze turns me on even more.
I smile as I move my mouth up and down on your cock, you slip out of my mouth and I groan. I take you back in my mouth and continue to work my mouth around your cock. I could do this forever, but too soon I feel your cock harden even more and you push your body up towards me. I consider my options and realise I can’t stop; I need this as much as you do. You make low groaning sounds and cup my head in your hands. Not forcing me onto you, just making sure I don’t move away. And then, as you come and your hot seed fills my mouth, I have to rest my hands on your hips to stop you moving away as your body jerks. I lift my head and look at you as I swallow. God, I worship your cock.
Wednesday, 16 July 2008
TNT - Starter
15 minutes thinking of you
I’m lying on the bed on my back and you are kneeling between my legs, you lift my hips and slide your hard cock inside me. I push my feet down onto the bed and support myself. You move one hand to my clit and start to stroke me; moving lightly at first in large circles and then firmer and more directly. You pull back and I moan, you dip two fingers inside me and then, impaling me on your cock once more, continue to rub my clit. I am totally focussed on you and you on me. As the pleasure increases I drop my hips a little to force you harder inside me as you continue to work my clit. Suddenly the sensation intensifies and I can feel I am about to come. You feel it to; and your cock hardens, further, inside me. I groan and cry out as it hits me and as I come you hold the heal of your hand against me; holding me tight with your other hand to stop me slipping away from you.
As the waves of orgasm lessen I remove the vibe from my sopping cunt and sit up thinking how much I’m looking forward to seeing you in 3 days time.
Tuesday, 15 July 2008
Sugasm #140
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”
The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”
Transcending moment
"It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice Chill Pleasure
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Monday, 14 July 2008
Do you fancy something new?
Sunday, 13 July 2008
Can't Get Enough
Photo credit: VolaVale
Wednesday, 9 July 2008
Sugasm #139
Flunking A Call“I fell silent again and tried to think. What did he want?”
Revision“He seemed… perfect. ”
Shaving, revisted.“I don’t do it for society, for anyone who will or will not be seeing it. I do it for me.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice Exploitation, objectification and breaking the law…More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Tuesday, 8 July 2008
Monday, 7 July 2008
Distraction
Don’t get distracted by thoughts of me grabbing hold of you and throwing you over the back of the couch, bending you over and pulling down those sweet pink panties of yours. Driving my tongue deep into you. Then I’m going to turn you over and fill you with my now hard and aching cock. You can feel me thrusting noisily and passionately into your wet pussy. You turn and drop to your knees taking my dripping cock in your mouth. I come hard and violently grabbing the back of your hair…. But don’t let me distract you from your coffee.
Photo credit: worak
Sunday, 6 July 2008
Sugasm #138
You’re going to come for me.“I imagined her, bound. Wrists behind her back, whimpering.”
Champagne Orgasms“I cry out, begging for him to stop, begging him not to”
Tie one on“He slipped his hands under my blouse and teased my nipples and breasts with his strong hands.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice The Look
More Sugasm Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Wednesday, 2 July 2008
High Heels
I put on my heels and lean over the worktop to watch the film whilst he cooks behind me. What man can resist high heels? Before I can turn to see his reaction he pushes up against me, roughly, expertly massaging my back, leaning forward and kissing my neck.
Monday, 30 June 2008
Send me a sexy text?
I smile; I was already thinking something dirty:
Slowly I ease myself down onto his hard cock. He is filing me and the sensation is amazing. So hard, so hot and his hands on my hips desperate to force himself further inside me. I rock back and forth rubbing myself against him. Feeling myself throbbing – my body craving release.
Rainbars
However, after 40 minutes in the car with CG I was the horny side of romance. Within seconds of getting into the room I was pushing up against CG, kissing him hard and pulling him to me. My breathing heavy, feeling his hardness against me and my body buzzing in response. Quickly he removed my clothes and kicked off his; falling onto the bed. Then, with frustrating self-restraint, he raised himself above me and incredibly slowly eased his cock into me. But, nearly two weeks apart meant a fast and furious fuck resulting in me seeing every corner of the bed from every angle.
And then as CG lay naked on the bed I found the shower. I love showers; detachable showerheads were surely invented by a woman. This one was a walk in shower with massive ceiling rose and rainbars. Quite by accident I stood the “wrong” way and that turned out to be a mistake I was pleased to have made.
I lean back against the wall and let the horizontal spray from the rainbars ease its way between my already swollen lips and beat against my waiting clit. The water pulsates and I try not to move. I want to arch my back in response but the smallest movement means the torrent of water no longer hits the spot. I stand, mouth open but barely breathing, water pouring over my body. Still able to feel where CG was inside me only minutes earlier, thinking only of the powerful sensation of the water. When it comes my orgasm hits me so hard that I let out a moan and my knees weaken. I feel it still pulsing through me as I step out of the shower to see CG still lying naked on the bed smiling at me.
Round Two!
Sunday, 29 June 2008
Thursday, 26 June 2008
What’s in a word?
He replies “Well - depends on the context;
He went slowly down my body with his tongue teasing me till he reached my soft and moist pussy….
or
He pulled my hair hard, lifted my arse high and rammed his huge cock deep into my wet and sore cunt."
Not sure it answered the question – but it did give me something to consider later in bed!
Wednesday, 25 June 2008
An Afternoon Quickie: Solo
Later I realise I never asked him the question I phoned with.
Tuesday, 24 June 2008
When fantasies get ruined – Can I come on your face?
I have this fantasy. We’ve just walked into the house. I am standing in front of CG. I am fully clothed and in my highest of high heels. He is stood with his back to the wall. I push myself up against him and start kissing him. He holds my hips and forces me against him. I can feel he is hard. After a minute I slide down his body until I am kneeling in front of him. I undo his trousers and I ease his cock out. I slowly open my lips and take him in my mouth. I look up at him and see him watching me, which turns me on even more. He is smiling. I groan as I pull him further into my mouth. I can feel myself aching for him. I move my hands up and down his hard shaft and he groans. I can feel him getting harder, ready to come. I pull back and look up at him and he comes all over my face.
It’s pure porn fantasy.
But too many years of shit sex with wanky men has ruined it for me. I’ve done it for the wrong reasons before and now I can’t do it for the right ones. Well, at least I don’t think I can. I guess if anyone can make me feel good about it, it will be CG.
Note: I tell CG what I’ve written and he sends me a text “tell you what you can come on mine and I’ll come on yours! It is porn and messy but kinda naughty”. So, watch this space.
Photo credit: Ende
Monday, 23 June 2008
Multitasking and Messenger at Work
What's cool about CG is that despite having been around a bit (which he will not thank me for saying) he's quite shy about stuff. So he sends me filthy texts: "I can feel you wriggling now as I suck your clit hard and plunge my fingers deep inside you" followed up with "is that too rude?". What a cool guy! It actually makes me even hornier.
Anyway, back to messenger. He's saying that he loves the dirty texts but is worried about going "too far" and that he finds it "difficult" sometimes.
Me: what sort of difficult?
CG: well I sort of like being naughty with you but am kinda sensitive about being over filthy. Don't worry I'm coming out of my shy mode.
Me: are you comfortable with the stuff I am sending you?
CG: yeah. I don't mind it from you I love it!! I suppose its just that you're not some cheap tart I want to fuck but now my girlfriend and I want to treat you with respect whilst also wanting to shag the arse off you! It's getting the balance right. Does that make sense ?
Me: yes and you are getting the balance right!
CG: good in that case I look forward to loads of hot and sweaty fucking with you coming on top of me with my hard cock deeply inside you and then you grabbing my now aching cock and sucking it greedily , making me explode and cuming deep inside you're mouth !!
I am completely at a loss for words. Which, if you knew me, is pretty bloody impressive.
Sharing my sex life
But really, do my friends want to hear about the details? Most of them probably don't. So I thought I'd share it here. I'm an verbal exhibitionist. I've only had sex in front of other people once in my life and it didn't do it enough for me to want to repeat the experience. However, I absolutely love talking about sex.
What's especially great about CG (aka my boyfriend and fabulous shag) is that he is more than happy for me to share. I guess as long as I keep it fairly anonymous!
I'll do the background and fill in the details as I go along. No one wants to read my entire life story all in one go.