Coco de Mer massage candle for starters

Susie at Coco de Mer recently sent me a massage candle to try out. It was from the Jimmyjane range and similar to this one here but smaller and coriander and quince “flavour”. It arrived beautifully packaged with a lovely red ribbon around a plain white box (the freestyle “willies” on the postal envelope caused slight embarrassment when I picked it up from a friend’s office!).

The actual candle is encased in a ceramic square. As the candle burns it gives off a unique and “clean” smell. It took only a few minutes to produce enough wax to use. CG looked quite concerned when I blew out the candle and started to tip the pot over his chest. However, the wax wasn’t too hot and it rubbed in really nicely. He very quickly got the hint and asked if I’d like to try some.

Soon I was lying on my front having a fabulous massage. The wax is as nice as any massage oil. The scent was quite strong but not overpowering. As he worked up my back, and I started dozing off, I was thinking how I would be able to write up what a lovely massage candle I was sent……

And then, as he continued to work my lower back, he slipped his free hand under my pelvis and started a far more interesting massage. Coco de Mer products suggest to me an element of the erotic rather than graphic so it seems inappropriate to go into detail on the half hour of amazing oral sex that followed, or the mind blowing sex that capped off the night. Suffice to say I can highly recommend the massage candle!

Erotica 08 (more info)

I have more information on the Erotica08 show:

From Friday 21st to Sunday 23rd November 2008, the Olympia exhibition space will once again be taken over for the annual Erotica exhibition. Erotica is the biggest consumer adult lifestyle show in the world as well as being the most daring and exciting event of the year. The event showcases over 250 of the best and most exciting people and products from the world of erotica. Just a few of the reasons why so people attended the sell-out show last year included the stimulating live stage shows, endless shopping opportunities, seminars and stunning art galleries.

The Erotica exhibition has been going since 1997 and is aimed at freethinking adults of all ages wishing to experience and enjoy a diverse range of entertainment and stylish lifestyle events, products and services, whilst promoting safe and respectful sex. Erotica is and has become the exhibition with the largest footfall of all UK consumer shows and its famous exhibitors at this year's Erotica include Richard Larsen Jewellery and Velda Lauder Corsets (well known around world - makes items for Dita Von Teese).

In addition to attending the show, the public can become Erotica members, which offers holders many benefits. As an Erotica Red, Gold or Black Card holder, members have some serious perks.

On the Saturday night during the exhibition; the famous Erotica Winter Ball is the party to see and be seen at. This year, The Erotica Winter Ball will be held at the glamorous Club Coliseum on 22nd November 2008 and tickets are £60 per-person.
Tickets for both the Erotica Winter Ball and the exhibition are available at www.erotica2008.com strictly over 18s, no cameras and no street wear permitted. Black Card Members receive 2 VIP tickets to the Erotica Ball as part of the membership package.

The Erotica exhibition is the ideal day out for daring and intrigued individuals, couples and groups; be daring, be decadent and have fun!

I'm still not sure if CG and I can make it along. If we do I will report back. If you are planning to go - let me know.

Sex Toy Review – The Zone

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Erotica 08

I was up in London last week and noticed a load of adverts for Erotica 08.

I'm hoping to attend and have asked the organisers for a bit more information so I can blog about it in advance. However, I can say they do seem to have a superb lineup of exhibitors.

I will blog more information as I get it.

Sugasm #152

This Week’s Picks
Sugarbutch Star: Maze - The Girl in the Red Dress - “She’s the kind of girl who brings out the worst in me.”

treat or … fuck - “He looked like I had just given him a car for Christmas and he gently took my hand and led me upstairs. ”

A Life Exposed and Amplified - “We were breaking the rules and being dirty.”

Mr. Sugasm HimselfSugar Bank

Editor’s ChoiceI told him I loved him. He gave me a pen.

More Sugasm Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

HNT - under the covers

So, I persuaded CG to pose for a HNT. It has to be said it's always easier to persuade a man if a blow job is offered in return!

Photo Blog - Blokes Bits

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New Toys

I got into the office late on Friday afternoon to find a parcel from the lovely people at OnJoy. They had sent me The Zone, the Pleasure Ball Massager and a Blow Guard. I was so keen to get my hands on The Zone that I unwrapped it in the car on the way home. My plan had been to wait until Sunday, when we have the entire day to ourselves, to test out of these toys for OnJoy (oh, did I mention I’m going to be doing some toy testing for them here on the blog). I was meant to be spending Friday evening preparing for the party we are having this evening. So, whilst I knew I didn’t have time for a proper play I did allow myself 20 minutes to look them over. The Zone is pictured above (I think it looks a bit like a gaming joystick), the Ball Massager is just that, a big purple and pink ball, and the Blow Guard had me in stitches at the thought of going down on CG looking like a hockey player. So, more on these toys as I get to grips with them over the next week or so!

As I say, the plan was that I’d be prepping for the party as CG wasn’t due home until late. However he surprised me, and himself when he found a bed covered in sex toys, by coming home early. But by this time I was cooking - so no time for fun. Anyway, the evening didn’t go quite as planned. Basic prep done he took me off for a spin in his ultra sexy motor (is it wrong to get quite so turned on by the fast driving of a powerful car by a masterful man?!), we had a fabulous Thai meal and drank two bottles of wine. The net result being all I can remember about what followed in bed was he allowed me more exploration of my ultimate fantasy with the help of this little bit of kit from LoveHoney (can I promote two companies in one blog post?!). He also let me do something far more intimate and controlling – but we’ll leave that for another post.

Roll on lazy Sunday is all I can say!